Read or Be Replaced
As recently as February 2026, I’ve received real paper bound books as gifts. And for years, I have been giving books as gifts to my friends and loved ones. If you want a list of books I love and have gifted, you can follow this link HERE.
Anyway, I know that our world of books has been shifting recently, and people are moving to more visual content, or audio content, but something is inherently great about getting lost in a book in hand.
And more so in a world dominated by screens, notifications, and endless distractions, the simple act of reading a book feels almost revolutionary. Yet, as reading scores decline and attention spans shrink, the importance of rediscovering this lost art has never been more urgent. From fostering empathy to sharpening critical thinking, reading is not just a pastime – it’s a lifeline to a richer, more meaningful life.
The Decline of Reading: A Wake-Up Call
The statistics are alarming. Two out of three children in the U.S. fail to meet reading proficiency standards, and scores have been declining for years. Only 31% of fourth graders and 30% of eighth graders were proficient in reading in 2024 according to the National Reading Proficiency NAEP studies, down from previous years. This isn’t just an academic issue; it’s a societal one. As Charlie Munger, billionaire and longtime business partner of Warren Buffett, famously said, “I have known no wise people who didn’t read all the time – none. Zero.”
Why Reading Matters
Reading isn’t just about decoding words on a page. It’s about perspective-taking, critical reasoning, and reflective analysis. When we read, we create imagery, engage in daydreaming, and practice inferential and deductive reasoning. Books teach us kindness, empathy, courage, and wisdom. They introduce us to feelings and experiences we might never encounter in our daily lives.
Fiction, in particular, has a unique power. Fiction creates an alternate universe that is possible to imagine and live in. It stimulates curiosity, imagination, and emotional intelligence, helping children (and adults) develop qualities like optimism, self-discipline, and perseverance.
The Digital Dilemma
The rise of digital technology has brought incredible benefits, but it’s also created new challenges. As clinical psychologist Catherine Steiner-Adair notes, children today are often “awash with, then accustomed to, and ever so gradually semi-addicted to continuous sensory stimulation.” When the screen is taken away, they’re left with a sense of boredom that stifles creativity.
This unnatural boredom is a far cry from the kind Walter Benjamin described as the “dream bird that hatches the egg of experience.” Instead of inspiring exploration and creativity, it leaves children feeling de-animated and disconnected from the real world.
How to Reclaim the Joy of Reading
How about we bring back the beauty of reading paper books to our children? As George R.R. Martin said, “A reader lives a thousand lives before he dies. The man who never reads lives only one.”
Here are a few strategies:
1. Lead by Example
Share what you’re reading and how it’s impacted you. Let your children see that reading is a valuable and enjoyable part of life.
2. Set Non-Judgmental Expectations
Instead of pressuring your child to read, gently encourage them. Say things like, “You’re so good with words; I think you’ll like this book.”
3. Choose the Right Books
Children often thrive with books that challenge their imagination. If they’re not interested in their current selection, they might be over- or under-challenged.
4. Create a Reading Routine
Dedicate time each day to reading, free from distractions. Make it a cozy, enjoyable ritual.
5. Embrace the Power of Stories
Use books to teach life lessons and spark conversations.
The Lifelong Benefits of Reading
Reading isn’t just a skill; it’s a gateway to a deeper understanding of the world and ourselves. It reduces stress, improves focus, and fosters empathy. As Will Schwalbe writes in The Need to Read, “Books are uniquely suited to helping us change our relationship to the rhythms and habits of daily life in this world of endless connectivity.”
In the words of Henry David Thoreau, “I learned this, at least, by my experiment: that if one advances confidently in the direction of his dreams, and endeavors to live the life which he has imagined, he will meet with a success unexpected in common hours.”
We’re Going To Video By Default
In one of his latests posts on X, Steven Pinker emphasizes that reading and literacy are not natural human abilities but cultural inventions that require deliberate effort to learn and sustain. Unlike spoken language, which humans evolved to acquire instinctively, reading must be explicitly taught and continuously practiced. Because it is not innate, literacy can easily decline if individuals and societies do not actively prioritize it.
His broader point is that many of the things we associate with human progress, reason, knowledge, and education are fragile achievements rather than default states, and they persist only when we intentionally cultivate and value them.
Ironically, I have to point you to a video he made about it. You can find it HERE.
Final Thoughts
While books can be expensive, ignorance is costlier. In a world that often feels chaotic and overwhelming, reading offers a sanctuary. It’s our chance to slow down, reflect, and connect with something greater than ourselves.
So, pick up that book you’ve been planning to restart or finish and rediscover the transformative power of reading.
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