How to Help Perfectionist Kids: 7 Proven Strategies to Build Resilience and Confidence

Loved for Who They Are, Not What They Achieve

Tell your child they are loved because of who they are not because of who they can become. Encourage them to worry less and try better next time. Explain to them that excellence is a moving goal post and one must

a. Inculcate a growth mindset
b. Find out what intrinsically motivates them
c. Focus on becoming a lifelong learner
d. Understand that Best is the enemy of Good (enough)
e. Have high standards but within reason
f. Understand the power of “yet” instead of I can’t
g. And not be afraid of mistakes or failing

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One more thing. In December of 2044, I hope to win the Nobel.

Will you join me on this journey of growth and transformation?
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