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Here’s How Toxic Handlers Navigate Life:
- Want to solve everyone else’s problems but their own.
- Find it very difficult to say no to themselves and others.
- Are enablers of others’ bad choices and actions.
- Do not stand up for themselves and wallow in self-pity.
- Find it difficult to see the bright side of anything.
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Our Thoughts And Feelings Lead Us To Believe That:
• Drowning in stress.
• Nearing burnout.
• Feeling angry and cynical
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Behaviors That Reflect We’re A Toxic Handler Are:
• Shut down and meltdowns
• Abuse alcohol and drugs
• And Waste time without regard for consequences
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About The Article Author:
Our mission with FutureSTRONG Academy – to grow children who respect themselves, their time and their capabilities in a world where distractions are just a click or a swipe away.
I see myself as an advocate for bringing social, emotional and character development to families, schools and communities. I never want to let this idea out of my sight – Our children are not just GPAs. I’m a Writer and a Certified Master Coach in NLP and CBT. Until 2017, I was also a Big Data Scientist. In December of 2044, I hope to win the Nobel. Namasté.
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Rachana Nadella-Somayajula,
Program Director & Essential Life Skills Coach for Kids and Busy Parents
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Our children will one day face the real world without our support. Academic development is not the only skill they will need in the real world where people skills like taking the lead, emotional intelligence and a strong moral compass will determine who will shine. So, as parents who want to raise well rounded adults, we want to give them the right tools for their personal development.
Here is COLLABORATION as described as the 6 C’s of Future STRONG.
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