People Change And Attitudes Evolve
I grew up watching Federer smash the tennis court like the true champion that he is. But, his arrogance was very off putting, so I would always cheer for the other side whenever I would watch him compete. “May the underdog win.” I would proclaim in our living room and our family watched on lazy Sunday afternoons as my dad would explain to me and my sister how the game is played and how points are scored.
I would watch every match that Federer was in with contempt for him as he took one victory after another. I think he’s a year younger than me, so I was also probably jealous in a way that name and fame reached him first than me.
Never mind that I never took once into consideration the amount of work he had to put in to get to where he is while I was barely making grades in Undergrad school and watching Telugu and Hindi cheesy movies to while away time.
But, boy, when I watched his speech so many years later at the 2024 Dartmouth’s commencement, I truly understood what it takes to be a legend. And the pleasant surprise? Now in his mid-40s, he’s seems to have embraced humility, the quality that, with age, eventually finds us all. ;-)
A Few Brilliant Quotes
Here are a few takeaways for me and hopefully you, if you’ve big plans for your life.
1. Effortless… is a myth.
People used to say Federer made tennis look easy, as if he barely broke a sweat. But as he reminded the graduates, smooth execution hides years of unseen grind. I had to work very hard to make it look easy, before the tournament, when nobody was watching. Greatness, he says, is built in the quiet hours, not just in the spotlight.
2. It’s only a point.
Failure is inevitable. Even the best players win just over half their points. That means mistakes aren’t disasters, they’re just part of the game. Federer learned to shake off errors, whether in early rounds or during that legendary 2008 Wimbledon final against Nadal. The lesson he asks us to understand is that we can’t let one bad moment dictate our whole life.
3. Life is bigger than the court.
Line any legend focused on a singular sport or art, for decades, tennis was Federer’s world. But now, his greatest joy comes from family, friendships, travel, and philanthropy. Through his foundation, he’s helped nearly three million children access education, sometimes even introducing tennis to classrooms in rural Zambia, chalkboard and all.
As he put it, “Tennis could show me the world. But tennis could never be the world.”
Important Lessons As Takeaways
The takeaway he left with graduates (and the rest of us I guess): Put in the unseen work. Don’t get stuck on one bad point. Recover swiftly from setbacks. And remember there’s a bigger, richer life beyond whatever court you’re standing on. End the game, but carry the lessons with you, and maybe even teach the next person how to grip their racquet.
As I end this, I want to give a shout out to Federer.
Dr. Roger Federer, you’ve grown up in the spotlight and have the courage and the self awareness to deliver a speech to show the light to our future generations that nothing comes easy. You’ve earned my salute.
Roger Federer’s Brilliant Dartmouth Commencement Speech
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