Loved for Who They Are, Not What They Achieve
Tell your child they are loved because of who they are not because of who they can become. Encourage them to worry less and try better next time. Explain to them that excellence is a moving goal post and one must
a. Inculcate a growth mindset
b. Find out what intrinsically motivates them
c. Focus on becoming a lifelong learner
d. Understand that Best is the enemy of Good (enough)
e. Have high standards but within reason
f. Understand the power of “yet” instead of I can’t
g. And not be afraid of mistakes or failing
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About The Article Author:
Hi, I’m Rachana. Its been my dream for years to do something to consciously create a better future where every one of us is excited about our own potential. My challenge to everyone is that they aspire for their personal best and leave a legacy of their work through their contributions to mankind.
One more thing. In December of 2044, I hope to win the Nobel.
Will you join me on this journey of growth and transformation?
Namasté.
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